Men, we all know one of the greatest insults or kicks to the teeth is for your peers, or the public to have the impression that some other guy if fucking your girl; or better yet, you’re quite alright with it. With respect to only those men that actually have a problem with some other guy scraping your girl out, I’m speaking to you (I’ll just imagine those weird kinky dudes out there who are cool with that, actually don’t exist).

I’m on the silver horse bobbin’ my head to some Lloyd Banks track. I hear him say some slick shit, I thought it was cool because it rhymed. “An’ if yo’ girl’s a groupie, I dun ripped her on tour; she gave me all the coochie, and then i dished her off to my boys”.

No doubt. I see how you do. You’re letting all those haters out there know just how much power you have, and just how disrespectful you can be to him. No doubt. I get it. I’m all down with that. Absolutely down with disrespecting the haters.

Allow me to build the platform!

Next track. I got some Cassidy track. He’s talking about the same thing. How he ‘twisted your girl’s back out’.

At that point, it hit me. Some of these guys are serious about this shit. Here’s what I got to say about all that nonsense.

Disrespect is definitely a part of Rap. I love it. It’s the streets. It’s where I’m from. But…. I been the type of guy that lives off ego, status… People looking up to me. I like to have the girl where all my peers are like, “WOW. Who is that he’s with. You ever seen her before? No. You? Damn. She’s official!” There’s nothing glorious about a groupie. There is also nothing glorious about swimming in some other guy’s girl’s crotch. While you might think it’s awesome that you twisted some guy’s girl’s back out; that makes you look like a chump. Now you, the tough guy who is disrespecting the next man, just got sloppy seconds. In a different perspective, it can be thought of as you admiring and being envious of the next man’s BI. Now ain’t that one of seven sins? The fact that you want to scrape his girl out apparently means he has good taste, good enough for you to be into it. Good enough for you to want his shit!

Now what is even more problematic; “I passed her off to my boys”. Now that sloppy quadruple guy is even nastier. Sure, you can argue that the chick getting passed around like that is gross too. But wait! The song is all about you guys not her. What you’re doing is making you and your whole squad look like some “back-yard boi’s”. That’s Patoi for homo. So don’t be shouting “No Homo” on  your next track!

Now your whole entourage looking all cool and shit, just exposed that they’re some dirty filthy perverts that all bang the same chick, pass them around, and talk about it like it’s cool. What ever happened to getting your own chick? What ever happened to bragging about how smoove you are that you don’t need groupies and that you have THE BADDEST chick on the planet? I am not impressed by these guys. I’ve seen what some of them are working with. I guess it is now cool to brag about how you twist out nasty washed up groupies, or shall we say, you’re enemies girl who likes to get passed around.

Shame on you!

I bet you never thought about it that way!